The first two times her boyfriend intervened, but now she may be single.
Dear E. Jean: I’m a guy. I recently ran into an old friend (and former colleague), and we made a date for drinks to catch up. I’ve always had a crush on her. Three years ago, I asked her out, but she declined because she had a boyfriend. Last year, we scheduled drinks (as friends), and her boyfriend vetoed it at the last minute. Should I ask if he’s comfortable this time? Or if he’s even in the picture? —Ethically Conflicted
E.C., My Caballero: There are three acceptable occasions upon which a man may be “conflicted”:
1. When suffering philosophical anguish over whether to tell a woman that she is beautiful…or that she is stunning.
2. When in the throes of moral doubt over whether to give a woman the small emerald earrings…or the large sapphire necklace.
3. When racked with spiritual uncertainty about how exactly to reveal to a woman that you own a 700-acre estate in Connecticut and a castle in Scotland.
Hesitating about her boyfriend is stupid. He’s not her husband. Take her if you can, sir!
This column is originally from elle.com